April 18, 2025

A note to my two year younger self

social mobility happens in rare cases, and that's how nature is built, resources are scarce.

you are not different from others, at least not in terms of intelligence.

dont take advice from everyone, you have seen more than others because of life experience. u are probably better in predicting the outcomes.

some strategy that worked for others will not work for you, there are n variables in the games.

hedge well, dont go after what you can't afford.

u meet the right girl at the right time, u were lucky.

be more professional at work, have clear boundaries between work and personal life.

differentiate well between friends and acquaintances.

u are not obligated to maintain friendships, u can choose to maintain some based on vibe.

your parents will get old faster than u think, spend more time with them.

very content you consume has hidden agendas, the creator is trying to sell u something.

exercise more, i am unhealthy now because of that.

people are in delusion, they dont comprehend the reality of the world.

u are weak in literature/arts, u will not be able to write average stuff.